Mom Has Meltdown

Autism Mom Has Meltdown! Please excuse me while I rant. I have posted a few times of the never ending battle of my son's room. I clean and by the end of the day, it looks like tornado alley.  I just got in there again. Lately, his thing is to bring garbage bags into his room. That are full of course. I was not ok about it until today though.  he brought a bag that he had hidden in his room into the kitchen and when I saw my floor crawling with maggots..it was last straw. I worked most of today cleaning my kitchen. Tonight I went into his room and got laundry. The more stuff I found, the madder I got. I was tired of shuffling through trying to save books, dishes and DVD's. I swept everything into a pile and it is now in a trash bag which will be hidden so hubby can dispose of it.  I know it is going to be a battle, but he is going to have to earn his tv, etc. I should have done it long ago, but did not know where to start.  If anyone has any ideas, please chime in. If you are going to place shame, etc. on me, do not answer this post as I am not in the mood.  I wish ABA was more available so I can see how iot is done...Thanks for now